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A Natural Guide to Pregnancy and Postpartum Health

by Dean Raffelock, Robert Rountree, Virginia Hopkins, Melissa Block

It is rarely discussed, but women commonly experience a wide variety of ailments during the postpartum period, from depression to anxiety, backache, and loss of libido. A Natural Guide to Pregnancy and Postpartum Health is the first book by physicians that is devoted entirely to telling women how they can prevent postpartum problems and attain optimum health after the delivery of their babies.

 

Elements of the program, which is meant to be adopted during-or, if possible, before-pregnancy, include diet, nutritional supplementation, exercise, hormone-balancing, the use of medicinal herbs, and conventional medications. Developed by the authors in clinical practice, this program has a proven track record in helping women to avoid and overcome postpartum difficulties.


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The Belly Dance Prescription: Shake Your Hips and  Depression!

by Christy Cuellar-Wentz, M.A.

The magic of belly dance for empowering your life and nourishing your soul.

 

 

 
Specialized support for the unique demands
of new motherhood.  
 

 

 

 

 

And Baby Makes Three-

The Six-Step Plan for Preserving Marital Intimacy and Rekindling Romance After Baby Arrives

- by John & Julie Gottman

JOHN GOTTMAN, PH.D., is a cofounder, and JULIE SCHWARTZ GOTTMAN, PH.D., is the clinical director of the Gottman Institute and the Relationship Research Institute in Seattle.  Learn the skills needed to maintain a healthy marriage and avoid the pitfalls of parenthood.  Complete with exercises that separate the “master” from the “disaster” couples.

 



 

Brooke Shields suffered a devastating and totally unexpected aftermath to the birth of her daughter. "I was in a bizarre state of mind, experiencing feelings that ranged from embarrassment to stoicism to melancholy to shock, practically at once. I didn't feel at all joyful."  And that was just the beginning. This tale will heighten awareness of an enormous problem that so many mothers have been afraid to discuss.

       

Down Came the Rain - My Journey Through Postpartum Depression

 - by Brooke Shields

 

 

 

 

 

Time for mom-Me: 5 Essential Strategies for A Mother's Self-Care

by Mia Renee Redrick

 

Congratulations, Mom! You've read books about what to expect when you are pregnant, how to care for your newborn, and tips on raising your children. Finally, here's a book for all moms who devote their time and energy to everyone else, yet inevitably leave little for themselves. Time for mom-Me is a book that shows you how to include your needs in your daily schedule. As a successful mom and personal coach to mothers with children of all ages, Mia Redrick teaches mothers that "Self-care is not negotiable, but necessary to be the best you, as well as the best parent." Mia helps moms realize their dreams and aspirations, while showing them how to thrive at mothering as a result of self-satisfaction. Her proven strategies help mothers everywhere find time, grow personally, self-connect and assign meaning to their lives. Practical and inspirational, Time for mom-Me will teach you powerful strategies for taking charge of your life.

 

25 Things Every New Mother Should Know

 - by Martha & William Sears

 

This book about a natural and intuitive way of mothering could serve as a friend to any new mother - whether it be for the first, second, or even third time.  Busy moms will find refuge in this warm, heartfelt book by America's foremost childcare experts.
 

 

It Gets Easier! And Other Lies We Tell New Mothers

- by Claudine Wolk

 

This fun book breaks new ground with its honesty and humor mixed with practical strategies.  Uncensored advice you're not likely to find anywhere else.
With its emphasis on fathers taking an active role in supporting the mother during labor and beyond, and taking an active role in parenting, this is a book you will definitely want your partner to read.

 

Father's First Steps- 25 Things Every New Dad Should Know

- by Robert & James Sears

 

Overcoming Postpartum Depression and Anxiety

 - by Linda Sebastian

 

Every year nearly 400,000 women—approximately 15% of all new mothers—face postpartum disorders. Postpartum depression is the most common complication of pregnancy, yet few understand it or are prepared to deal with it. This book examines the causes of treatment for postpartum depression.

                                 

 

 

Making Healthy Families

 by Gayle Peterson, Ph.D.

This must-have book explains the elements required to make and sustain healthy, functional families. This timely book describes the family life stages, from "Becoming a Couple," to "Becoming Parents," and "Raising Adolescents." It educates parents about the predictable stresses of each transition, and offers guidelines and hands-on exercises for achieving a healthy adjustment in each stage of family life.
 

 

 

Mother Shock- Loving Every (Other) Minute of It

- by Andrea Buchanan

Expecting Adam- A True Story of Birth, Rebirth, and Everyday Magic

-by Martha Beck

 

Well-written, down-to-earth, funny, heart-rending, and tender, Expecting Adam is an autobiographical tale of an academically oriented Harvard couple who conceive a baby with Down's syndrome and decide to carry him to term. When Martha gets accidentally pregnant and the fetus is discovered to have Down's syndrome, the Becks find they cannot even consider abortion. The presence of the fetus that they each, privately, believe is a familiar being named Adam is too strong. As Martha's terribly difficult pregnancy progresses, odd coincidences and paranormal experiences begin to occur for both Martha and John, though for months they don't share them with each other. Martha's pregnancy and Adam (once born) become the catalyst for tremendous life changes for the Becks. There is no doubt that Adam--a boy who sees the world as a series of connections between people who love each other--is a tremendous gift to Beck, her family, and all who have the honor of knowing him.

 

 

Even June Cleaver Would Forget the Juice Box -

Cut Yourself Some Slack (and Still Raise Great Kids) in the Age of Extreme Parenting

- by Ann Dunnewold

So . . . you missed T-ball tryouts, forgot to buy allergy-free organic snacks for today's playdate, got wait-listed for the top preschool, and now you feel like the worst mother in the world . . . again. Millions of moms are drowning in the pressure cooker of modern momhood and want out of the race. The good news: Your exit strategy has arrived.

If you're feeling overstressed, overtired, or overscheduled, noted psychologist Ann Dunnewold can help you rewrite the rules of motherhood by introducing a new, healthier paradigm--one that replaces the dysfunctional myth of the June Cleaver mom. Dr. Dunnewold will teach you:

  • How to follow your gut, not guilt; rely on your values instead of unrealistic expectations.
  • To start connecting instead of competing with other moms.
  • How to stop your tendency to 'overperfect,' 'overprotect,' or 'overproduce.'
  • The 9 Dirty Secrets of Motherhood and why they're perfectly normal!

Imperfect parents rejoice!

     

 

 

 

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Fussy Baby Book - Parenting Your High-Need Child From Birth to Age Five

The bestselling authors of The Baby Book  present a reassuring and wonderfully practical guide for parents of fussy babies and difficult children.  Some helpful hints include proven baby calmers, a checklist of medical factors parents should watch for, sound advice on discipline, and much more.

- by William & Martha Sears

 

 

 

The Mother-to-Mother Postpartum Depression Support Book

- by Sandra Poulin

 

What kind of mother, people wonder, could feel depressed after having been so richly blessed with a baby? The answer: every kind, women from all walks of life, from all over the world, young and old. And here, in a unique collection, are their stories of battles with PPD, with intimate details about the symptoms, the struggles, and the strategies that helped them emerge victorious.
 

 

 

 

 

 

The Postpartum Husband- Practical Solutions for living with Postpartum Depression

 - by Karen Kleiman, M.S.W.

 

This hands-on guide includes straightforward, supportive information and specific recommendations to help partners deal with the impact of depression after the birth of a baby.


 

 

 

The No-Cry Sleep Solution  - Gentle Ways to Help Your Baby Sleep Through the Night

Do you suffer through sleepless nights, and then during the day listen to heartless advice to let your baby “cry it out?”  Elizabeth Pantley, a parent educator and mother of four, offers tear-free sleep solutions to fit your personal parenting style.  Clear, step-by-step ideas to help your baby sleep at nighttime and at naptime too.  If you are sleep deprived, you need this book!

 

Download free sleep logs and access helpful information at Elizabeth's website: http://www.pantley.com/elizabeth

 

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- by Elizabeth Pantley & William Sears

 

 

 

 

A guide for new mothers includes detailed information and actual case studies to help deal with the difficult adjustments women and their families face after the birth of a child, and features sections devoted to women with special needs.

 

Postpartum Survival Guide

- by Ann Dunnewold, Ph.D. & Diane Sanford

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
In this brutally honest - yet hilarious - memoir of her agonizing transition into motherhood, the author breaks the New Mother Code of Silence, proving that maternal bliss is not innate, but learned.  Funny and wise.

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The Second Nine Months- One Woman Tells the REAL Truth About Becoming a Mom. Finally.

- by Vicki Glembocki

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mothers Need Time-Outs Too: It's good to be a little selfish.

 It  actually makes you a better mother

 - by Susan Callahan, Anne Nolen & Katrin Schumann

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Whether you’re the mother of toddlers or teens, work inside the home or out— if you’re exhausted from trying to be perfect, this book can help you. Mothers Need Time-Outs, Too uses hundreds of real-life stories and mom-tested tips to demonstrate how taking time-outs will transform your life. Practical and inspiring, this book will launch you on a voyage of discovery that takes you back to yourself, and it will help you become the best mother you can be by becoming the best woman you can be.  Written by moms, for moms.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If you ask a woman who has recovered from postpartum depression if she wants more children, she may say, yes, but I'm scared to go through that again. This book was written to accompany these women on their journey toward a subsequent pregnancy after postpartum depression.

 

What Am I Thinking?  Having a Baby After Postpartum Depression

- by Karen Kleiman, M.S.W.

 

 

 

This Isn't What I Expected- Overcoming Postpartum Depression

- by Karen Kleiman, M.S.W. & Valerie Raskin, M.D.

 

"At long last, mothers and families suffering postpartum depression have a book of hope."--Nancy Berchtold, founder and director, Depression After Delivery.

 

Daily practices designed to reconnect us with our souls, nourish our creativity, reward us for our efforts and worth, and connect us with others in a supportive, loving way.  Helpful for everyone, especially those who have been overlooking their growing levels of stress and unhappiness.

 

The Joy Diet- 10 Daily Practices for a Happier Life

-  by Martha Beck

 

                          Postpartum Depression For Dummies

 

          by Dr. Shoshana Bennett

 

 

 

 

 

 Pregnant on Prozac: The Essential Guide to Making the Best Decision

for You and Your Baby - by Dr. Shoshana Bennett

Antidepressants today top the list of drugs prescribed to women. But what happens when you add pregnancy into the mix? Pregnant on Prozac is the first guide to separate the myths from the facts.

 

Worried that you — or someone you love — are suffering from postpartum depression? This understanding, authoritative guide explains this sensitive disorder and how it differs from the "baby blues." You'll see how to find the right doctors, evaluate the various treatments — from medication to therapy to self-help groups — and create a comprehensive plan for recovery.

 

                

                  The  Double-Daring Book for Girls - by Andi Buchanan & Miriam Peskowitz

The eagerly anticipated follow-up to the bestselling phenomenon The Daring Book for Girls is an even more daring guide to everything from making a raft to learning how to play football to the art of the Japanese Tea ceremony.

 

 The BlackBerry Diaries: Adventures in Modern Motherhood

The BlackBerry, says Kathy Buckworth in her witty new book, is truly the "whining toddler of technology," constantly buzzing, poking, and distracting its owner from whatever it is she’s trying to accomplish. In this way, it bears an uncanny resemblance to the uncooperative two-year-old hanging off a mother’s leg at the Motor Vehicle office. And is that BlackBerry holster really any different from a Baby Bjorn? No, according to the author. When either squeaks, Mom jumps. Still not convinced? Consider Buckworth’s irrefutable facts: Both “start up” upon entering the washroom. Both go off in the middle of the night, even when they’re supposedly turned off. Both require time alone plugged into a one-way communication device to be recharged: for the BlackBerry, it’s the USB cord; for the kid, the television set or GameCube. This comic guide to the travails of new motherhood shows the acclaimed humorist at her best.

 

    Real Solutions for Busy Moms: Your Guide to Success and Sanity

                                   Just published!  Hear from real women who struggle with balancing the responsibilities of marriage, raising children, managing a household or career or both,

and finding any time left to take care of themselves.

                   As the involved mom of three very active children, the supportive wife of an emergency room doctor, and a dynamic businesswoman, Kathy knows of these struggles firsthand.

by Kathy Ireland

   Mommy Wars:

Stay-at-Home and Career Moms Face Off

on Their Choices, Their Lives, Their Families

    by Leslie Morgan Steiner

 

How and why does a woman make the choice between family and career?

How do other women juggle these decisions?

Do you want practical information to help you make choices right for you?

 

 

 

Important New book by Karen Kleiman of

The Postpartum Stress Center (www.postpartumstress.com):

 

Therapy and the Postpartum Woman:

Notes on Healing Postpartum Depression for Clinicians and the Women Who Seek Their Help

 

 

This book provides a comprehensive look at effective therapy for postpartum depression. Using a blend of professional objectivity, evidence-based research, and personal, straight-forward suggestions gathered from years of experience, this book brings the reader into the private world of therapy with the postpartum woman. Based on Psychodynamic and Cognitive-Behavioral theories, and on D.W. Winnicott's "good-enough mother" and the "holding environment" in particular, the book is written by a therapist who has specialized in the treatment of postpartum depression for over 20 years. "Therapy and the Postpartum Woman" will serve as a companion tool for clinicians and the women they treat.

 

 

         An Easier Childbirth: A Mother's Guide to Birthing Normally

   by Gayle Peterson, Ph.D.
 

              

Childbirth should be one of the most joyful experiences in a woman's life. All too frequently it is one of the most fearful. In Gayle Peterson a nationally recognized leader in the field of perinatal psychology prepares the mother-to-be for the most positive experience possible utilizing a childbirth preparation method based on medical research that shows emotional factors to be important in a healthy pregnancy and delivery.  It begins with a personal birth preparation inventory. It then addresses the mother's fears and concerns through exercises aimed at decreasing her anxiety and increasing her confidence and sense of well-being.

How to be a Mom and happy too:

How to be a Mom and happy too:

 

The Essential Mommy-Muse.com™ Toolkit:

11 Empowering Keys for Your Journey into Motherhood

(Learn how to be a Mom and happy, too.)

- by Christy Cuellar-Wentz, M.A. 

 

 

 

 

 

While the famous Osmond smile beamed for the camera, no one, not even Marie, fully realized the anguish and emptiness behind the smile. More than one-out-of-ten new mothers experiences post-partum depression (PPD) after childbirth; yet feelings of shame and guilt, or fear of isolation, prevent most from seeking help. After giving birth to her seventh child (four of her children are adopted), Marie became increasingly depressed. Now, Marie shares with readers the fear and darkness of the depression she overcame, and, in collaboration with the doctor who helped her through her ordeal, offers the methods she learned for treating PPD.

 

Behind the Smile- My Journey Out of Postpartum Depression

  - by Marie Osmond

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Steering by Starlight: Find Your Right Life, No Matter What!

 

One of the best-known life coaches in America  describes

the never-before-published, step-by-step process

              she uses with her private clients to help them navigate the terrain of their best lives.

by Martha Beck, Ph.D.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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